I am being forced to dress girly for my friend's 18th, having narrowly avoided being forced into a dress. I was literally being made to feel bad about refusing to wear a dress, and I tried to tell them how uncomfortable I'd be, but that was hard without being able to say why.
I've been extremely put off about coming out to these friends at all now, because one of them, upon discussing a local politician who happens to be a transwoman, she said "she looks like a man and she used to be a man, it is really quite funny." Which I found offensive and aggravating. And here there and everywhere people remind me of my sex and how I have to be girly to go to parties. Maybe I should just not go to parties. Or leave my house. Even for work, where I get misgendered so much I want to cry. Same with college. But I can't say anything because I'm too afraid to come out of the closet.
Also wow, wow, I haven't posted a journal in forever. .-.